DGWL Talks Training in a Pandemic

Marybeth and Marcia chat about germs, gyms, and chasing gains after a year of COVID-19.

At the time of this recording in April 2021; large meets were rescheduled, most gyms were reopened, vaccines are rolling out to the public, and many shifted their goals back to strength training. With all that in mind, some of us have returned to strength, shifted away from sports, or found a new happy medium between chasing gains and staying COVID free.

We also discuss anxiety, fears, and motivational changes with the pandemic changing our strength, employment, and general life plans.

Watch the episode via YouTube below, or listen via Anchor

Return of the Stump!

Guess who’s back!!! Marybeth & Marcia sat back down with Alexis of @Stump_Kitchen to catch up on birth, parenting, movement, YouTube, and creating content. She shares her birthing story, parenting tips for disabled folks, Limb Difference Awareness month projects, and so much more. Join us as we unpack all the things with our Canadian queer mom. 

Here’s the episode on YouTube!

Audio version more your jam? No problem, we’re on most platforms. Click the link below.

Disabled Girls Who Lift Podcast

Mobility, Magic, and More on the latest episode!

Our disabled bodies deserve to move well and enjoy movement! We explore some mobility and magical tips on the latest podcast episode. Available on your favorite platform! Click below or search your podcast app for "Disabled Girls Who Lift".

https://www.disabledgirlswholift.com/dgwl-podcast

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GIF showing Mandy Moore on ‘Drunk History’ saying, “I brought your ass everything you need. You’re welcome, everybody.”

And since we're feeling generous, here's a quick summary of a few magical tips. Listen to the full episode for more context and conversation!

  1. Mobility = how your joints moves, Stability = muscle strength, Flexibility = muscle length.

  2. Depending on how you do a 'stretch', it can target both flexibility and stability.

  3. Warm ups have a goldilocks zone, don't move around too much OR too little before the actual workout.

  4. You owe it to yourself and your body some space to transition before you workout, give yourself time to mentally prepare for movement and see how you feel before starting. This happen with the warm up or before it.

  5. All the magic isn’t just in the gym. Don't forget about posture, hydration, recovery between workouts, and getting good sleep!

  6. Top 5 things to address with mobility work: unilateral exercises, core stabilization (bracing), chest expansion, hip openers, & balance

Injury, Aches and Pains?

Us disabled girls are full of aches, pains, and imbalances, and it’s super important that we learn how to listen to our bodies and what to do with them to keep lifting for the long haul.

On our latest episode we talk about past injuries, laugh at a few mistakes we’ve made along the way, and share tips on how to choose the right PT to meet your goals.

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GIF showing DJ Khaled sitting in an executive chair hands folded saying “Major key alert.” Key emojis flash on the screen.

Here are the top major key alerts from that episode!

1. There are three types of injuries. One, the overuse injuries that are everyday aches and pains from our imbalances that we ignore. Two, the injuries you couldn’t have done anything to prevent or avoid (ie freak accidents). And three, the “you knew better” injuries. Just chill out, slow down, and pay attention to prevent those “you know better” injuries.

2. It can be hard to “listen to your body”, when your body doesn’t even know what it’s doing. Sometimes our bodies are not regulated, can't send us the right signals, or send us different signals than what we're taught. It's half the work in any fitness plan to learn how you as a person connect to your body and how your body responds to movement.

3. If you need help learning your body or recovering from injury, HIRE A PHYSICAL THERAPIST. Check if they're licensed, creep their social media to make sure they aren't a dick, and don't be afraid to ask all the questions in the world. If after all that they still suck, it's ok to fire them. This applies to any and all people you pay for a service. If the service doesn't serve you, move on!

ICYMI: Medication, Marijuana, and the Gym!

Let's circle back to Episode 32.
Have you listened?

On that episode, the panel of spoons reconvened from across America to discuss all things prescription medication and marijuana. We talked about scheduling training sessions, symptom management, stigma, shitty doctors, our stupid healthcare system, and more.

Here are a few gems!

GIF shows drag queen, Alaska Thunderf*ck, pouring pink and white pills from an orange bottle into her mouth.

GIF shows drag queen, Alaska Thunderf*ck, pouring pink and white pills from an orange bottle into her mouth.

Fuck a stigma, buy that pill organizer. Save a few daily spoons and 'meal prep' those pills folks!

GIF shows Wiz Khalifa alternately smoking two blunts.

GIF shows Wiz Khalifa alternately smoking two blunts.

You don't have to get high with your friends, or feel pressured to keep up! Marijuana use is medicinal, take your meds as you see fit. Forget the movies, live your life the way it makes sense FOR YOU.

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GIF shows Seth Meyers on “Late Night” making two comparisons with his hands, one arm lifted higher than the other.

COMPARISON IS THE THIEF OF JOY. You might find yourself in a room of similar diagnoses with the longest list of meds. Or you might be the only one in the room not taking any meds. Every body is different. Ask questions, sure. But don't give any fucks, focus on you.

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GIF shows Kaa the snake (Jungle Book) with colorful hypnotizing eyes saying, “Capitalism.”

Yes, the cannabis industry is kinda bullshit. Buying beautifully packaged edibles at a premium while BIPOC are in prison for possession charges does not feel good. It definitely makes us feel some type of way. It's okay to acknowledge that nuance.

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GIF shows a woman from Rock Content pointing down with two hands wearing a #loverocks pride shirt.

Click below or find us on your favorite podcast platform!

Medication, Marijuana, and the Gym! (Panel of Spoons) on Anchor


14 Disability Podcasts to Check Out!

Looking for ways to tap into disability media? Trying to find voices you can relate to and/or stories you can learn from? Say less fam.

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Image shows a man from the 70s deeply listening to tunes, eyes closed, with large headphones on.

Real quick, before we get into details here's the list and all the links!

  1. Disability After Dark

  2. The Accessible Stall

  3. Disarming Disability

  4. Sex, Drugs & Disability

  5. Invisible but Not Broken

  6. The Disabled Truth Podcast

  7. Chronically Badass

  8. Chronicles Podcast

  9. In Visibility Today

  10. Power Not Pity

  11. This Is Not What I Ordered: The Podcast

  12. The Triple Cripples

  13. The Maccessibility Roundtable Podcast

  14. BBC Ouch

And now, some background on each.

Disability After Dark is a podcast that shines a bright light on issues about sex and disability with host, Andrew Gurza. Andrew Gurza is a Disability Awareness Consultant and Cripple Content Creator. Andrew shares his lived experiences of disability, queerness, sexuality and body image in a raw, vulnerable and unapologetic fashion.

Podcast art shows Andrew Gurza smiling back while he sits in his wheelchair in front of a bright orange background.

Podcast art shows Andrew Gurza smiling back while he sits in his wheelchair in front of a bright orange background.

The Accessible Stall is a disability podcast hosted by Kyle Khachadurian and Emily Ladau that keeps it real about issues within the disability community. They challenge the “expected” of the disability community whenever possible, and some of their best episodes are the ones in which they must confront their own biases.

Podcast art shows a cartoon of Kyle and Emily sitting together in an accessible bathroom stall as a podcast recording studio.

Podcast art shows a cartoon of Kyle and Emily sitting together in an accessible bathroom stall as a podcast recording studio.

Disarming Disability is hosted by Nicole & Sarah. Nicole and Sarah have grown a relationship based on mutual life understanding of constantly being in awkward situations because of their limb differences, a love for intelligent conversation, and an unending need to travel.

Image shows Nicole and Sarah smiling brightly and pointing at the camera. Nicole is wearing her robotic prosthetic and Sarah also shows her upper-limb difference with pride.

Image shows Nicole and Sarah smiling brightly and pointing at the camera. Nicole is wearing her robotic prosthetic and Sarah also shows her upper-limb difference with pride.

Sex, Drugs & Disability covers taboo topics that we often deal with or are curious about but rarely discuss. Through humor, storytelling and interviews with friends, Julie tries to make sense of the world as a newly disabled woman who may not have long to live.

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Julie is shown arms crossed in front of a white-shingled wall smirking. Her cool red mohawk stands out.

Invisible but Not Broken features roundtable chats with Monica & Eva. The site also features their other podcast projects Explicitly Sick, Human Care Cast, and Discomfort Zone.

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The “Invisible NOT Broken” logo is shown over a bold black circle.

Chronically Badass is a grassroots movement dedicated to connecting, supporting, and inspiring invisible illness warriors in their athletic and fitness pursuits.

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The “Chronically Badass” logo is shown in blue font over a white background. Different color ribbons are shown to represent the various forms of chronic illnesses.

Chronicles Podcast is a podcast about disability politics, health, and life from the perspective of two chronically ill Colombian femmes.

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The “Chronicles” logo is shown with lots of bright colors and zigzag shapes in front of a bright yellow background and blue/purple hue triangles.

In Visibility Today is a monthly podcast featuring disability current affairs & interviews. Sharing who & what's Visible in disability!

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The “In Visibility Today” logo is shown with an artistic eye drawn with teal colors.

Power Not Pity centers and celebrates the lived experiences of disabled people of color. Let's dismantle ableism by listening to each other's stories.

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Bri is shown smiling brightly and pointing finger guns at the camera. She wears cool shades, purple lipstick, and blue/purple hued hair.

This Is Not What I Ordered Join San Francisco psychotherapist and podcast host Lauren Selfridge for honest, humorous, and inspiring conversations with people who get what it's like to live with health challenges.

Lauren is shown smiling and posing in front of a teal background with one leg up on a chair, arms crossed.

Lauren is shown smiling and posing in front of a teal background with one leg up on a chair, arms crossed.

The Triple Cripples increases visibility and highlighting the narratives of black and non-black women, femmes and non-binary people of colour, living with disabilities.

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Kym (red shirt) and Jumoke (orange shirt) are shown smiling in front of the camera.

The Maccessibility Roundtable is devoted to connecting and providing easy access to the best resources for blind, visually impaired, and other disability groups using Apple products. It is maintained by a dedicated group of visually impaired volunteers.

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The “Mac-Cessibility” logo is shown over a blue background and a computer cursor.

BBC Ouch is the place where the real disability talk happens. Interviews, life hacks and things you don't say out loud. With Simon Minty, Kate Monaghan and the Ouch team.

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Simon and Kate are shown in the podcast recording studio wearing headphones and smiling at the camera.

#DisabledWhileBlack: Three Paths from Racial Bias to Poorer Health

Large disparities exist between the health of Black and white Americans. Is it because black people are uneducated, poor, or lazy? Is it because black people eat too much fast food, smoke too much weed, and drink too much? Don’t be obtuse.

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GIF image showing Donald Glover on “Community” saying, “That’s racist.”

The health gap between Black and White Americans persists BECAUSE OF racism. Racism is a system that engulfs all sectors in America, including healthcare. For example, mortality rates for Black people are 20% higher than White people (1). Black people are more likely to report chronic illness, and black children are more likely than white children to have a disability (2,3). Even socioeconomic status does not account for racial health disparities (4). Rich? Doesn’t matter babe, you black. Same shit.

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GIF image showing Desus on “Desus & Mero” saying, “You thought!”

Three paths can lead from racial bias to poor health outcomes for Black Americans. First, being the target of PERSISTENT discrimination takes both a physical and a psychological toll (5). Second, physicians’ perceptions about race create subpar treatments (5). Third, physicians’ implicit bias leads to poor communication and provider-patient interactions (5). And no, being colorblind or “ignoring race” does not fix this problem.

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GIF image showing Stephen Colbert on “The Late Show” saying, “But then wouldn’t I be a racist if I thought about racism?

If you call a problem by it’s name, then MAYBE just maybe you can actually work towards solving it. We can't fix what we don't acknowledge. Physicians, providers, and healthcare facilities need to first acknowledge racial disparities in health care, and then work to address it. One step providers can take is to individuate patients, by treating each patient as a unique individual rather than a representative of a race (5). Hard sell apparently. Clinics and facilities can work to aggregate information and audit that data for racial disparities (5). Then use that data to fix it.

TLDR: Healthcare is racist. Might not be capital R racism in all cases, but bias be fucking us up. Do better.

  1. National Center for Health Statistics. Health, United States, 2012: With special feature on emergency care. Hyattsville, MD: U.S. Government Printing Office; 2012

  2. Black-white Disparity in Disability: The Role of Medical Conditions

  3. Disparities in the Prevalence of Disability Between Black and White Children

  4. Race, socioeconomic status, and health: complexities, ongoing challenges, and research opportunities.

  5. Reducing Racial Health Care Disparities: A Social Psychological Analysis

A Deeper Dive into DGWL Podcast Episode #27

“Systemic Racism & Defund the Police”

We talked a lot of shit in Episode 27 AND got all the links to back it up!

Dig your heels in and get to it. Take these questions, articles, and resources into your circles and conversations for an even bigger impact.

What is Systemic Racism?

“Systemic racism”, or “institutional racism”, refers to how ideas of white superiority are captured in everyday thinking at a systems level: taking in the big picture of how society operates, rather than looking at one-on-one interactions. Read all about it here.

What Is Juneteenth?

Juneteenth commemorates the effective end of slavery in the United States. Read more about it here. Did you learn about Juneteenth in school? Us either. Have a read, “What Can We Learn from the Germans About Confronting Our History?

Why are Black and Brown people disproportionately affected by COVID-19?

Well, where we live, learn, work, and play affects our health. And guess who decided those things for us? The US government funded suburbs for white Americans (link here) and redlined areas to make sure we didn’t mix well (link here).

As the CDC states, long-standing systemic health and social inequities have put some members of racial and ethnic minority groups at increased risk of getting COVID-19 or experiencing severe illness, regardless of age. Read more here.

Considering that the pandemic has forced many closures and cancellations, financial hardships are upon a lot of Americans--with a huge emphasis on minorities. For example, big banks passed vulnerable Black businesses in favor of bigger "small" businesses and handed out Paycheck Protection Program money to the LA Lakers, Shake Shake, and others. Read more here.

To make things worse, there’s been no change in the level of hiring discrimination in US labor markets. Check out this study published in 2017, “Meta-analysis of field experiments shows no change in racial discrimination in hiring over time”.

Why do Black and Brown people have worse health compared to white people?

Short answer: racism. Longer answer: BIPOC have higher death rates and illnesses because of more stress and less access to care. For example, Black expectant and new mothers in the U.S. die at about the same rate as women in countries such as Mexico and Uzbekistan. Read more black women’s mortality risk here. And stress? Slavery was definitely stressful. Jim Crow era? Stressful. This trauma and stress gets passed down from generation to generation. Historical trauma affects the health & wellness in communities of color, read more here and here.

What is this School-to-Prison Pipeline?

Students are encountering the criminal justice system as minors and often are pushed into the juvenile justice system with arrests occurring at school! Sound crazy? Well, LA was spending $70 million funding school police, so there’s that. And for a more detailed explanation on the school to prison pipeline, head over to Justice Policy for a good read.

Also, what’s Broken Windows policing about?

The broken windows theory of policing suggested that cleaning up the visible signs of disorder — like graffiti, loitering, panhandling and prostitution — would prevent more serious crime as well. NPR covered this back in 2016, have a read or listen here.

Are cops really racist?

The history of policing is racist. The history of most things in our country are racist. But, the history of police starts with slave patrols, the protection of white people, and treating Black people worse than pieces of property. Did police stop lynchings? Did police protect Black people from being curbed? No. No they didn’t. Instead, Black and Brown bodies are heavily criminalized and taken advantage of by economic institutions like the prison system. And there’s more. Read here.

Defund the police? But what about violent crime?

In case you somehow missed it, we’re spending a lot of money on stupid shit. Remember, $70 million for armed police officers in LAUSD schools? Defunding the police will actually make us safer by spending money where it matters. [On 6/30/2020, LAUSD cut police funding by 35%--roughly $25 million--and ordered that “460 officers be taken off campus and out of uniform until the district can look closer at the agency as a whole.” Were they listening to our podcast?! I hope so.] Police spend the most resources going after minor incidents that actually don’t threaten everyday life but do lead to mass criminalization and incarceration. Read more on the police’s misuse of police funds via the ACLU here. And to answer that question about violent crime, you have a 40% chance of getting away with murder. Does that make you feel safe? More on crime clearance rates and data on Vox here.

What is ‘qualified immunity’ for police?

Qualified immunity shields government officials from being held personally liable from constitutional violations (i.e., excessive police force, murder, coercion, sexual assault, did we say murder?) under federal law. When government officials are sued, qualified immunity is their defense. Why does this suck? Well, it has become one of the chief ways in which law enforcement avoids accountability for misconduct.

Written by Marcia D. You May find her @thatdoc.marcia

Dear white people...

Dear white people,

We are in week five of nationwide civil unrest since the murder of George Floyd.

As a 29 year old white woman, I am simultaneously ignited with hope and reeling with dismay after witnessing reactions from fellow white folks. I am hopeful because of the sheer number of white bodies I’ve marched alongside. Yet I am disturbed by those who continue to dig their heels in the ground while proclaiming “all lives matter” and those who deny the palpable problem of systemic racism as well as those who don’t believe in the need for police reform. Our society is upended.

Recently, Trevor Noah described society as a contract that we enter either spoken or unspoken as human-beings where we agree to common rules, common ideals and common practices. Noah said the contract is only as strong as the people who are abiding by it. As white people, we are not upholding our end of the contract to Black people. For centuries, we’ve contributed to and allowed systemic racism. We’ve watched as police brutalized Black bodies. And now, we’ve even managed to make racial injustices against Black people about us.

It’s time for us to talk about some of the problematic responses white people have had.

When white people hear Black Lives Matter they say “all lives matter” or “blue lives matter”. White people are unable to selflessly grasp the concept of why we need to focus on Black lives. Black people are more than 2.5 times likely to be killed by a police officer than a white person.

White people get uncomfortable when brands or public figures take a stance and join the Black Lives Matter movement. They complain and say “stop getting political” or “stick to what you know” because “I don’t follow you for this kind of content”. Can you imagine the discomfort of over 400 years of oppression?

White people deflect conversations about police brutality against Black people by asking “What about Black-on-Black crime?”

White people avoid conversations about Black slavery in America by bringing up Irish “slavery” (they were indentured servants).

White people tell Black people to “get over it” as if those words can erase the deeply-rooted oppression and brutality that has enveloped Black lives since the early 1500s when they were first captured.

White people fail to realize when slavery ended Black people were not immediately elevated to the same playing field as whites. History shows our own government would continue to implement policies to deny opportunities to Black people from the Homestead Act to Jim Crow laws. White people are unable to see the generational trauma inflicted upon Black families as a result of centuries of their mistreatment.

White peoples’ denial of systemic racism is a contributor in allowing it to continue; to those who have been silent, you are also complicit with the side of the oppressor.

So where do we go from here?

First, we ask you to understand when we chant “Black Lives Matter” that we are demanding society to recognize and elevate Black people as equals in humanity.

Next, the steps we need to take as white people will be endeavoring and uncomfortable work without instant gratification. Dismantling systemic racism starts with us as individuals. We must look inside ourselves and challenge any prejudices we hold. We can no longer brush off our racist relative(s) at family get-togethers. It’s time (really it’s been time and a lot of us are very late) to have hard conversations with ourselves, our family, our friends and coworkers. We may estrange some of these people, but it’s vital to speak up and out. We must show up at the voting polls and hold candidates accountable when they vow to implement change for our Black community. We need to push for legislation that no longer allows police to kill with impunity. The work won’t end there, but all this is part of us upholding our end of the societal contract.

Remember when you join this movement as a white person, it’s likely you will make a mistake along the way. It’s vital to acknowledge we don’t know racism or Black experiences first-hand so we must be able to take corrections from Black people.

We are glad to have you, but we have a lot of work to do so it’s time to buckle in for the long haul.

Written by Chloe Lansing. You may find her at @chlo.mae.l.

8 Non-Fiction Books, Essays, and Memoirs on the BIPOC Disabled Experience

As we move into the middle of June with less than a week until Juneteenth, we’re seeing more informative and educational videos, podcasts, and books circulating for allies to educate themselves on anti-racism for the first time. It’s amazing--Ibram X Kendi books are selling out, library books have two month waiting times, and it’s a great time for white America to do the work themselves without putting the emotional burden on their Black friends.

The NY Times has published recommendations on Anti-Racist Books and NPR stated that their List of Books, Films, and Podcasts about Racism is a Start, Not a Panacea. We hear you loud and clear, NPR Opinion column! This is just the beginning of your anti-racist work. We want to know what else you’re doing to mitigate the shit out of the racial bias, injustice, inequity, and violence you witness in workplaces, gyms, grocery stores, and in your local police department.

We want to know how you’re centering your anti-racist work around intersectionality and amplifying not only Black men but also Black women, Black disabled folks, and Black transgender folks by taking into account the complexities of prejudices, discriminations, and disadvantages they face.

Here is a working list of readings featuring BIPOC authors and stories that we’d love for you to add to your Sunday Book Club catalog:

  • DisCrit: Disability Studies and Critical Race Theory in Education by Subini Annamma, David Connor, Beth Ferri. This book examines the achievement/opportunity gaps from both historical and contemporary perspectives, as well as the overrepresentation of minority students in special education and the school-to-prison pipeline. Chapters also address school reform and the impact on students based on race, class, and dis/ability and the capacity of law and policy to include (and exclude).

  • Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice by Leah Lakshmi Peipzna-Samarasinha. Leah explores the politics and realities of disability justice, a movement that centers the lives and leadership of sick and disabled queer, trans, Black, and brown people, with knowledge and gifts for all. Care Work is a mapping of access as radical love, a celebration of the work that sick and disabled queer/people of color are doing to find each other and to build power and community, and a toolkit for everyone who wants to build radically resilient communities of liberation where no one is left behind.

  • Blind Ambition by Ever Lee Hairston. A product of share-cropping parents and raised on one of the biggest plantations in the South, Ever hid a terrible secret, which she hadn’t told anyone – not her family, her friends, her teachers, and as she got older, even her employers. Ever Lee didn’t want to accept that she was slowly losing her eyesight.

  • Black Disabled Ancestors by Leroy F Moore Jr. Black disabled people have ancestors who left knowledge, art, music, culture, politics and a lot of pain for us to pick up, build on, and to tell the harsh truth. Many colorful, harsh and dream-like Black disabled ancestor's stories have been waking Leroy up in the middle of the night.

  • Disability, Gender, and the Trajectories of Power by Asha Hans. This book argues for the rights of women with disabilities, who live on the periphery of society, and seeks to eradicate the exclusion and stigma that are part of their lives. It brings together the perspectives of academicians and activists in trying to understand the various social issues faced by women with disabilities and argues for a society where they are not denied respect, equality, and justice.

  • Black Madness: Mad Blackness by Therí A. Pickens. Therí rethinks the relationship between Blackness and disability, unsettling the common theorization that they are mutually constitutive. Her theorizations of race and disability challenge the paradigms of subjectivity that white supremacy and ableism enforce, thereby pointing to the potential for new forms of radical politics.

  • This Kid Can Fly: It’s About Ability (Not Disability) by Aaron Philip, with Tonya Bolden. Antiguan American immigrant, a 14-year old with cerebral palsy writes this honest, funny memoir providing insight on how physical disabilities and poverty played a role in their upbringing. Aaron Philip is a Black, transgender, and disabled model known all across the nation.

  • The Secret Life of a Black Aspie by Anand Prahlad. Anand was born on a former plantation in Virginia in 1954. For the first four years of his life, Prahlad didn’t speak. But his silence didn’t stop him from communicating—or communing—with the strange, numinous world he found around him. Ordinary household objects came to life; the spirits of long-dead slave children were his best friends. In his magical interior world, sensory experiences blurred, time disappeared, and memory was fluid. Ever so slowly, he emerged, learning to talk and evolving into an artist and educator.

If you get into any of the pieces listed above, please let us know your thoughts in the comments box!

Since I have you here… Black Lives Matter. Black Disabled Lives Matter. Peace!

A Letter to our DGWL Community

A Letter to our DGWL Community:

The universe sure does have its ways to test society and our ability (or lack thereof) to respond, react, and mobilize around global adversities. We have seen kind acts of service from communities to horribly terrifying individualistic acts of hoarding and xenophobia in the short months that we have been entrenched with information surrounding the novel COVID-19.

While simply having a disability doesn’t immediately put one at a higher risk from coronavirus (COVID-19), many disabled individuals do have specific disabilities or chronic illnesses that make the virus more dangerous for them and by definition puts them at larger risk. It is essential that we spread awareness and resources for those who need it most without creating additional fear and anxiety.

We find it frustrating, tiring, and scary how fast false information travels--through news reports, social media, podcasts, and you guessed it--even national statements made by chief executives. We must constantly be on guard against fear-mongering reports, actions, behaviors, and impulses, and actively correct them as they come. Here are some ways you can protect your energy or encourage the environment around you to reinforce healthy habits until this thing blows over.

Step One: Protect and Prioritize your Physical Well-Being, Mental Health, and Wellness

Make well-informed decisions. Make decisions that prioritize your health, not the health of someone else. You are the only person who knows your boundaries, and if it doesn’t feel safe just don’t do it.

Step Two: Communicate with your Family, Friends, and Employer/s Transparently and Often

Check in. Check in on your loved ones with a daily or weekly update just so they know your status and you know theirs. It can be frightening with multiple national shutdowns, travel bans, and mandated quarantines to be uncertain about the status of friends and family in surrounding areas. If you are near or within an affected area and you are okay, unharmed, and have proper supplies, let that be known to your circles. If you are in the opposite unfortunate situation, it is the perfect opportunity to ask for help. You’d be surprised with how much assistance you might get from your circles alone.

Step Three: Limit your Media Exposure

It might be tempting to look for the latest news in your jurisdiction, state, and nation surrounding the coronavirus--number of confirmed cases, number of deaths, and likelihood (?) of your social category’s survival. I’m sorry to say it, but none of this statistical information will be of much help to you now or if you or your loved ones contract the virus.

What you should read instead are preventive and corrective resource materials from official organizations such as the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention).

Steps to Prevent Illness

What to Do if You are Sick

Stigma and Resilience

COVID-19 FAQs

Step Four: Don’t Hoard

The most disheartening thing that’s happening across the U.S. right now is the unnecessary amount of hoarding we are witnessing at grocery and drug stores. There is absolutely no reason why one household needs 6 packs of 48 rolls of toilet paper, multiple boxes of N-95 masks, 1,200 bottles of hand sanitizer, and the entire medication aisle of your local CVS or Walgreens. Even if each member of a family of four were to be forced to quarantine for 14 days each, you can survive off of only a few rolls let alone use your clothing/towels in an apocalyptic scenario. Masks in general should only be used for those who are sick to avoid contamination, but seriously a simple bandana will do as long as you take all precautions as recommended by the CDC to prevent the spreading of germs (wash your hands frequently, cover your cough/sneeze, socially distance yourself from others up to six feet if COVID-19 has spread in your community, and disinfect everything you or others touch in your quarters).

It doesn’t hurt to have a small supply of essential items in case you do get sick, but please get enough for just you and your family. You are hurting the family next door by unnecessarily hoarding food and supplies.

Step Five: Request for Relief or Donate to Relief Funds

If you or someone you know is struggling financially or lacking medical supplies due to COVID-19, please share the following relief funds. You may either donate or request assistance:

COVID-19 Survival Fund for the People prioritizes “those most vulnerable: those who are undocumented, disabled, elderly, houseless, BIPOC, queer and trans, sex workers, and communities displaced by gentrification.” They “will be funding up to $50 (per request) for grocery / supply home deliveries.”

Find local relief funds in your area.

If you live in the East Bay of California, you may request support at http://tinyurl.com/djccsupportform or donate to https://tinyurl.com/DJCCally.

There are many organizations that accept and provide used or surplus medical equipment and supplies. Examples of this include but are not limited to crutches, wheelchairs, walking aids, diabetic supplies, and other basic medical supplies. Please check out:

Step Six: Learn about your benefits

Government Benefit Programs that Assist Individuals with Special Needs:

  • Medicaid, which provides basic medical care to low-income individuals. Most states also have “waiver” Medicaid programs covering residential, day care, career, and other services.

  • Supplemental Security Income (SSI), which provides funds for food and shelter to individuals with disabilities. To qualify, a person must have less than $2,000 in “countable assets.”

  • Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI), which requires that participants have been unable to work for at least a year due to their disability. Benefits are based on the individual’s income history and the number of quarters they have worked and contributed to the program.

  • Disabled Adult Child (DAC), which requires a determination that the onset of the participant’s disability occurred before age 22, that the person is unmarried, and that the participant has a parent who has a disability, is retired or deceased and who qualifies for Social Security him/herself.

  • Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP/Food Stamps), which has eligibility guidelines similar to SSI.

  • Section 8 Housing, which subsidizes residential rents for families for low-income families, which may include those with special needs. Eligibility is based on a sliding scale that considers income and family size.

Governmental Benefit Programs for Individuals affected by COVID-19

Check your local state employment departments for current support services to individuals affected by COVID-19. Some examples include:

Step Seven: Support your local favorite small businesses

Many communities are suffering from the sudden decline of our economic welfare--low-income workers, artists and entertainers, speakers and trainers, athletes, educators, small business owners, the customer service industry, the list goes on… Much of our work relies on traffic and people-to-people interaction, and while taking all necessary precautions to protect the public health is vital during this pandemic, it has been slowly hurting our economic health. Continue to support your local storefronts by purchasing gift cards of any value, donate it, or save it for the future.

If you have additional resources you would like to share with your DGWL community, please write to us at disabledgirlswholift@gmail.com or send us a message on our Instagram. Please continue to take care of yourselves, love others, and wash your damn hand/s and limb/s!

XOXO,

DisabledGirls

Marybeth Baluyot, Marcia D, Chloe Lansing


Sources:

https://www.specialneedsalliance.org/special-needs-101/government-benefits/

Kellie S.

Kellie San Souci is shown in full cosplay attire as Luke Skywalker (from Star Wars) holding up a lightsaber prepared for battle. Her awesome robotic prosthetic is shown.

Kellie San Souci is shown in full cosplay attire as Luke Skywalker (from Star Wars) holding up a lightsaber prepared for battle. Her awesome robotic prosthetic is shown.

Trying to lift and work out just like everyone else…

My name is Kellie San Souci and I was born with one hand. due to an amniotic band while I was in utero.  

Before I started elementary school, I did go to a school with other children so I could learn skills like being able to tie my own shoes rather than having to use velcro.

Over the years I did have various body powered prosthesis as an assist for the missing hand, but it wasn't until I was in my late 40's that I started actively becoming interested in fitness, working out, and lifting. I don't know why it took so long for that to be the tipping point for me, but it did. I also have a myoelectric prosthesis for work so I can type, but this type of prosthesis isn't helpful for working out.

In January 2018, I joined the gym I belong to and got myself a personal trainer. My trainer, Lydia, was very enthused about helping me to develop further techniques to be able to lift with both arms. She is very active on Instagram and made great use of the tags as well as Youtube. She discovered this man, Warren Moore, and saw that he used straps as an assist. She then found the man who had made them and contacted him. Mogens Eggemann was very helpful for us to determine who lengths we would need. I have a small and medium length. 

When I started working with her, I only went for the two days we had together at the gym. As my outlook on fitness changed, I found myself working out on my own. Most weeks, I have one recovery day and even if I don't go to the gym, I do find myself doing something active like running.

Sometimes the straps do pinch and using dumbbells is a little awkward. So back to IG and Youtube we went. That's when Lydia sugested that I looked at what other hand handed atheletes who lift and even mountain climb. I followed some of these athletes like @Merrbertt, @Will.Lift.For.Food and @Mo.In.Mountains.  

"If you had told me two years ago that by having these adaptive tools, I would be able to be achieving results in both arms equally, I would have laughed in your face."

I also then started asking some of these athletes if they wouldn’t mind sharing the tools that they used with me so I could achieve different ways of lifting. Every one of these athletes is very supportive and a great resource. @Merrbertt uses Harbinger Lifting Hooks. These hooks are more comfortable for when I do Romanian deadlifts, Trap bar deadlifts, and even Sumo Squat deadlifts

If you had told me two years ago that by having these adaptive tools, I would be able to be achieving results in both arms equally, I would have laughed in your face. Now that I have been working out with Lydia and using the correct tools, I do realize this was the result I had been looking for all along. 

As we encounter new challenges in the gym and how I lift, we keep looking for new ways to adapt.

You can find Kellie on Instagram at @ladycat1170.